lisa
...feeling sad lisa @misslisalou

Coping

Really depressed..i need a fresh start in life..not good at all..plus light machine still broke😣

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Theme Depression and Psoriasis

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39 responses

Paul
Paul @paul116

Stay strong you are not your conditionals continued use of light machine puts you at a higher risk of skin cancer


Paul
Paul @paul116

Condition not conditionals


Sarah
Sarah @sarahuk

Ah Lisa, so sorry to hear you're feeling low. I think sometimes we do get to these points where we know something needs to change. Have you got an idea what things you'd most like to change about whatever is making you feel this way? Hope your treatment is back up and running very soon.


natalie
natalie @nataliemc

only you can make the changes lisa. 😙


Nikki
Nikki @niksam

Really sorry to hear you’re struggling Lisa. I have been in that place many times, due to chronic illness. I always have to find distraction, or do some relaxation.
I hope you feel better soon x


Andy
Andy @andy7

Sorry to hear you are struggling Lisa, I also have depression and I feel it this time of the year. It’s been a long winter and I think we’re
all waiting for some sunshine, some dry weather anything just to lift us a little bit. I hope you get some light treatments soon. Take care Lisa and try and look forward to the better weather. X


Michelle
Michelle @mishlyn

Oh wow, still not fixed 😔 Sorry to hear that Lisa! I hope they get on it soon. Too bad there wasn't another one close by. Try to stay strong and know 'this too shall pass' ❤


Michelle
Michelle @michelle1021

Ai Lisa. Have patience with all things, but chiefly have patience with yourself. Do not lose courage in considering your own imperfections but instantly set about remedying them. every day begin the task anew. Stay strong and don't feel depressed. You an beat the bad.


lisa
lisa @misslisalou

I started dating someone a few weeks ago..told him about my skin condition and didnt see him for dust..ive taken it quite badly and at a time where my depression is kicking in again


Paul
Paul @paul116

Stay Strong Lisa You are not the condition,Also he was not the right one for you !!Beauty is more than skin deep and you are Beautiful Inside and out, if they like you for who you are and not how you look then they are the right ones, his loss your gain


Nikki
Nikki @niksam

If your skin was his reason for not seeing you again, he’s shallow and ignorant!
I’m sorry that happened, it must be very hard and you must feel rejected.
The reason my ex is my ex, is because the Neurologist thought I had MS and my ex saw it as a great way to pay the mortgage off!
My partner now, is very, very different. But I was physically disabled when we met, so I know there are people out there who see past health problems. I’m just sorry that one turned out to be so shallow.
Meeting that person turned my life around and since it happened for me, I truly believe there’s someone out there for everyone. I hope you find your someone soon x


natalie
natalie @nataliemc

your too good for him lisa. what a loser.


Paul
Paul @paul116

Well said Natalie


Ruben
Ruben @ruben

Hang in there Lisa, things will turn around!!


Ruben
Ruben @ruben

Hang in there Lisa, things will turn around!!


Michelle
Michelle @michelle1021

@Lisa. He is obviously shallow. If he can't accept you for who you are but for looks only, then you are better off without him. Don't let that bugger get you down. He is not worth it. Concentrate on yourself. You are beautiful and I am not just saying that to make you feel better. I can see you are beautiful and if your skin has such an impact on shallow people then GOOD! Less time to waste on idiots.


lisa
lisa @misslisalou

Thankyou everyone..i coukdnt compare to his ex wife.i saw her in a pic and made me dread telling him even more.


lisa
lisa @misslisalou

Your all amazing..i really needed this support..thankyou x


Chris
Chris @Chris70

Its what's on the inside as much as the outer layers if people can't see that then better off without


Jon
Jon @jon2

You look gorgeous to me!


Susan
Susan @godcares

lisa one thing I can tell you is that there is nobody to compare too. I'm 56 now. Saggy boobs, a bit of a muffin top, scarring from my psoriasis, grey hair. My boyfriend is 52 and absolutely smitten with me. My looks? No way! It's my heart and the fact that I love myself, but that was something that took time for sure. Men really are attracted to something different than we think, in my opinion. Jeez... How many times have we seen someone large with someone much smaller? All the time and yet they hold hands and are happy. I actually know a few couples on a personal level like that. Looks are going to fade and then what? Work our asses off to maintain it, get surgery, thinking that will keep our partners? I am a life learner and know without a doubt that that is not the key to a long lasting relationship, but that is my opinion of course. You are a beautiful soul so just know that in your heart. God will bring you the right person at the right time!


Chris
Chris @Chris70

Plus she's quite a looker as well Susan 😉


Paul
Paul @paul116

Yeah your beautiful



lisa
lisa @misslisalou

Aww thankyou but i have no self worth..especially now dont understand


lisa
lisa @misslisalou

First i get through an abusive marriage, then when i do feel ready and trust again i have my ex fiance leave months before wedding now this (years apart of course)


lisa
lisa @misslisalou

My psoriosis is coming back too and just want my treatment to resume.


Paul
Paul @paul116

Lisa stay strong you are a very attractive lady the mans a fool, you are worth someone who likes/loves you for who you are not how you look, there is someone out there for you...You are not your Condition, and you are worth more than you realise!!!because we are special we are the 1% ers...STAY STRONG


natalie
natalie @nataliemc

If I were you I would take a break from men. You Don t need a man to be happy. I've been through the mill and back myself. Now I just concentrate on my kids and my self. If I happen to meet some one then happy days. But it's not gona be my mission either u no what I meen. Xx


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Michelle
Michelle @michelle1021

Please don't ever let anyone take away your worth. It is your worth, not theirs. Especially some lame guy who ghosts you or is too lazy to treat you right. These days, nobody hears this enough, you deserve to be happy and you deserve to be treated like a king/queen. The biggest mistake we make in life is to compare ourselves to other people. Don't compare yourself to people. You are unique in your own way, and believe it or not but somewhere out there, is someone who wishes to be you. With or without P.


Clint
Clint @NJClint

Change is the hardest and best part of life once you can make a change ad see that you moved forward you will never look back the next change will free you.


Michelle
Michelle @michelle1021

I agree with you Clint. Since I've changed my perspective about P, I changed. My whole outlook on life is totally different.


Paul
Paul @paul116

How you feeling today Lisa??Better I hope


lisa
lisa @misslisalou

Thankyou for your concern, im ok paul..warrior mode in force


lisa
lisa @misslisalou

Thankyou to everyone for all the lovely support..you've helped a lot xxxx


Clint
Clint @NJClint

Happy Thursday 😎


Andy
Andy @andy7

Hi Lisa, hope you are enjoying this lovely weather here in the east midlands. It has certainly made me feel better. I have plenty jobs round the garden to keep me busy. I hope you are feeling better, look after yourself.

Andy X


lisa
lisa @misslisalou

thankyou I feel a lot better x



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lisa
lisa @misslisalou
Harworth, Doncaster, UK

hi all you beautiful people! I am a very proud mum to two beautiful girls (age 20 and 11) hoping to start my own floristry business further down the line, i believe the simple life is the best life to live,one day!! lol..still struggling to accept p



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