Michelle
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Sex and Psoriasis. Friend of mine has genital Psoriasis and he is afraid to have sex with his new girlfriend. I told him that it takes two to generate the right atmosphere and that the brain is the largest most active sexual organ. What do you think?

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Theme Sex and Psoriasis Genital Psoriasis

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Roni
Roni @roni

Great response Michelle! I think your answer was perfect. Hopefully he will agree and the connection will happen. Here's to love, sex and psoriasis!


Susan
Susan @godcares

Well I have this theory that you can have sex with anyone. Making love is different and is our behavior and actions toward each other starting first thing in the morning. I think someone who loves you wouldn't care. Kind of a Ferimone thing too... LOL


 john,Hulk
john,Hulk @chewbacca

yes i agree Michelle, the brain is the largest sexual organ in the body,sorry about your friend being afraid Michelle,


Justin
Justin @justin1

I think you are correct.


Clint
Clint @NJClint

I like the sexy answers please carefully use lemon 🍋 this will help no creams and wrap that rascal...


Mishlyn
Mishlyn @mishlyn

I agree Michelle, our minds are fasinating. Hopefully your friend can find it within himself to enjoy the moment and not get too far ahead of himself. Hopefully is gf is understanding and likes him for who he is.


Justin
Justin @justin1

I keep repeating myself, but I am a coconut oil addict!

For lubrication it wins hands down!


Sarah
Sarah @sarahuk

I think genital psoriasis can be really debilitating in the bedroom department. I think lubrication is a real issue, Justin, good to hear your tip! Oh yes so much of sex is actually in our minds. Good response Michelle! I think I can see why your friend is afraid, but I think it's one of those things where you feel the fear and do it anyway. With whatever helpful measures you need to make it happen!


James
James @ferns

If the person with genital P is using the various oils and creams we all use at least lube wouldn't be an issue :)


Michelle
Michelle @michelle1021

Thanx for the response everyone. I told him to join Flaym. With all your advice on this matter, how can he not become confident right? In my experience, my P has never been a problem in my sex life but I have to add that I never had genital P so I can't really give any advice on that subject but it's good to learn about it. Thank you :)


 john,Hulk
john,Hulk @chewbacca

I have always had to steroid him up,if i know i am going to have sex say a day before, then i do use a steroid on him, not good i know , all 3 people that i know with it do not get it there,i am the unlucky one,i have had times when it has been good and cleared but, its not that often, steroid gets rid of it to a degree,one needs to have a sex life and most of us do love sex,its part of our lives :)I had high hopes last year that my diet/lifestyle changes would clear it ,no, its not going to happen, i was upset with all the hard work i was doing last year but, i had to go back to acceptance,nothing i can do,strange we all get it in certain places and not others for some people , my P likes it any where, i turned up at my friends house last night/eve and he was walking around topless, not a flake in site,i said you have no p, i do he said, 2 little spots, around 3 mm big, i am not joking ,,on his elbow and knee and he was saying, yes i cant get rid of it, you got problems i said, check these flakes out :) i said you are lucky guy, i said i need to get clear for lanzagroti in september to october , if i have to use steroid then i will before i go, hopefully not, could be worse though :)


Michelle
Michelle @michelle1021

Hey John. Welcome back! Hope you had a good evening? It's difficult to maintain our P but what can we do? We try our best and sometimes still get disappointed right? We just need to carry on and believe it will get better :)


 john,Hulk
john,Hulk @chewbacca

Thank you , Michelle yes i did thank you, was nice sat in the garden at my friends house drinking beer and then we watched football in his garage, well we were sat outside looking in his garage at his large tv watching football, what rubbish it was,watched to half time then went to the pub and had inflammatory foods, vodkas and more beer, cant remember eating my food though, that worrying haha thank you :) well what can one do as you say Michelle, just got to live with it and thats it :)


Michelle
Michelle @michelle1021

lol John. At least your night ended happy (if you can remember lol) Might have gotten some cuddles from your room mate too!


 john,Hulk
john,Hulk @chewbacca

Noooo,he would crush me lol, hes a big guy, he thinks i am twig,he thinks i look older since i changed my diet,i think that too, ah well, it was nice thanks Michelle :)


Michelle
Michelle @michelle1021

John...I thought your room mate was a woman??? 😳😳😳😳...Ooops. Sorry!


 john,Hulk
john,Hulk @chewbacca

Hahah, yes she is but this wasnt with my room mate watching football, this was with my friend who lives 15 miles away from me,hes the mild flakey friend , my room mate was at work ,shes alright, i gave her some organic lettuce this morning,my friend who is my flakey friend grows organic foods in his garden :)


 john,Hulk
john,Hulk @chewbacca

just remembered michelle, i ate dog biscuits last night too,they were in jars at the bar in the pub hmmmmm tasty :)


Michelle
Michelle @michelle1021

Dog biscuits? Really? Remember, I'm very gullible sometimes hey. You must've been barking up a storm last night. lol.


 john,Hulk
john,Hulk @chewbacca

Yes,i had 2 varieties,ones shaped like bones and the other cant remember ,The guy at the bar did look at me a bit odd with me scoffing on these dog biscuits and they were free, well i was hungry and had to wait for my food order . They are full of nutrition Michelle, helps a dog to get a nice silky smooth fur coat, i am hoping it will give me nice silky smooth skin :)


Michelle
Michelle @michelle1021

Well John, I hope so too. I've never tasted dog biscuits before but, might give it a go this weekend. This good be good for our P hey. ;)


 john,Hulk
john,Hulk @chewbacca

Who knows Michelle they might be good ?,they are bland tasting to be honest, but when drunk anything tastes good :)


Psoriatic4good
Psoriatic4good @psoriatic4good

Sex?

No problems there, always been a good lover... psor or not :)


Aleksandar
Aleksandar @aleksandar1

I would not recomend sex until all desapiar from the genitals.


Michelle
Michelle @michelle1021

Hi Aleksandar. I've never had P on my privates but there are a few Flaymers who are very careful when having sex. It won't help going on like ramping rabbits as it might worsen the P right?


Aleksandar
Aleksandar @aleksandar1

Sorry, i'm being informative. I'm worried 'cause I had on my privates and suddely show up a spot of P on my girfriends hand, I'm not happy aboth that. And now we are not together any more.


 john,Hulk
john,Hulk @chewbacca

Sorry to hear this Aleksandar,we are open here about these things, i know where you are coming from,its never caused me a real problem but i get it there too, i try manage best i can , i wish you well



Michelle
Michelle @michelle1021

Did your girlfriend have P? It's not contagious so I assume she was a sufferer as well? And still, even if she has P, she can't get it from being intimate. Or am I wrong? I'm sorry you're not together anymore but maybe its for the best. You need someone special whom will accept you for who you are and what you have. :)


 john,Hulk
john,Hulk @chewbacca

So true Michelle, No you cant catch it in anyway, intimate or not ,Yes theres always someone special out there for everyone :)



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