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I was beautiful and sexy once. Let's go folks.... when did you last feel sexy? Has P changed that? How do you still keep it? Let's talk about how P has changed your 'self' thoughts. Looking for positive comments.

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28 responses

 john,Hulk
john,Hulk @chewbacca

Well feeling sexy? i think i am okay :) i am good :)thanks :) I feel sexy in my outfit in my photo :)


Chris
Chris @Chris70

Depends on responses, some might make me that way but it can be self as well .I


 john,Hulk
john,Hulk @chewbacca

No, my thoughts havnt changed Deborah as i know no difference with out it ,:)It dosnt mean because you felt beautiful and sexy once upon a time that you cant be beautiful and sexy now Deborah, its my opinion and that applies to all here :)


Peter
Peter @peter1011

My P was seriously affecting my sex life. Why? Because I was letting it, in my head I was undesirable. In reality my lovely partner was more worried about the lack of sex than my P.
Look beyond the mirror folks, we're still us xx


Jennifer
Jennifer @jujubee

I mean, I got the mom bod now is harder on the self esteem lol. But the men I've been with since my p started 10 yrs ago haven't let it bother them. Most people are sexy through their attitude more than looks. No one is unblemished haha but when you're really attracted to someone you don't see that stuff as imperfections, rather the opposite. Their moles, birthmarks, ect are part of their perfection because it is part of them. So I still feel sexy, just need the right partner ๐Ÿ˜‰


Md
Md @md

I think you are looking beautiful, why donโ€™t feel sexy? Do you have partner with you? A real partner can make you sexy and can reduce your stress level


 john,Hulk
john,Hulk @chewbacca

You know Debora, I could feel insecure all the time about myself, I have pitted scars on my face from a Doc giving me pointless medications years ago that caused that ,theres Psoriasis also, you know it dosnt make a difference to me ,If one projects them self well to others,with some confidence etc, i think anyone can come out feeling/looking sexy,What about you? have you had negative feedback from others? thanks :)


Michelle
Michelle @michelle1021

I love to dress nice. I kike feeling confident. I feel sexy all the time because of lingerie. I love sexy lingerie and perfume. Love spending money on it as well. Lol. But I like to feel sexy to boost my confidence not to look for attention. You are a gorgeous woman Deborah and feeling sezy should come natural to you ;).


Michelle
Michelle @michelle1021

Oops. Sexy. Not sezy.


Sarah
Sarah @sarahuk

Great question! I think my body is OK and I'd prefer the p bits not to be there but they are there so I just get on with it! Hehe! It is what it is...


 john,Hulk
john,Hulk @chewbacca

like a leopard but with changing spots :)


Michelle
Michelle @michelle1021

You know Deborah. I was thinking a lot about your question this morning. I went out last night. Wearing a red leather pants/trousers, with a halter neck top with heels. I actually felt quite sexy in those pants. Haven't felt sexy and confident like this in years and I have to admit I felt good. Maybe its because I wore my hair down as well?? I always wear it in a clip but thought against it last night. I say, if you feel good and sexy in what you wear, your confidence gets a boost and you can forget about your P for a while. Feeling good makes us happy. :)


Ruben
Ruben @ruben

Hey Deborah, P hasn't changed that!
Since I have P I'm looking further than skindeep...
We're all sexy people here.
Helping, supporting each other, that's very sexy!


Michelle
Michelle @michelle1021

Best answer I'd say.


Claudia
Claudia @claudia103

Abstained from any relationship and socialising for nearly 10yrs ..a divorce during that u was under extreme stress and ended up with cancer. Now Iโ€™m ok and phorasis has demmished 90% because Iโ€™m stress free loving myself more and healthy eating. But strangely enough I never had psoriasis on my face because it is always exposed to VitD if the sun. VitD is vital.


deborah
deborah @deborah4

I posted a conversation and then ran away, so sorry. I was called out to help a client who was hospitalized and hadn't gotten back. Good comments, thanks so much for your feedback. I asked at the time due to feeling a bit low and still struggling with a text message from someone I was dating for over 14 months that said that he was "drifting" because of my P and he wouldn't be seeing me anymore. Made me feel a bit unattractive, and truthfully, a bit like an ugly duck.


 john,Hulk
john,Hulk @chewbacca

Sorry to hear this Deborah,Thats pants isnt it :( You are not ugly so i wouldnt worry about that, i really dont what too say accept i am sorry about this Deborah, if want to talk to anyone especially the ladies here as they great ,i am sure they will listen as we all will and we all want to support you as we do, I wish you well thanks


deborah
deborah @deborah4

Claudia! Gosh! I hope that you are doing better. I've not had P on my face either. Front torso clear mostly. Remainder about 75 % covered right now. I've not been clear in 5 years, so I'm feeling a bit sorry for myself... I'll be fine. Hope you are too.


Sarah
Sarah @sarahuk

No one needs a self-proclaimed drifter Deborah. There's nothing ugly about you lovely girl!


Michelle
Michelle @michelle1021

I second that Sarah. You are beautiful Deborah and don't think otherwise. You will be fine indeed :)



Michelle
Michelle @michelle1021

Hi Rajeshbabu. Hope you are well and your P is treating you kind?


deborah
deborah @deborah4

Thank you all. :)


Glenn
Glenn @glenn

I am relatively new here and probably waffle too much, but hey ho thats the kind of guy I am ๐Ÿ˜‚
Once I realised that my ps wasnt going to leave, there was nothing but to flaunt it!! Down on the beach in trunks with the kids for all to see ๐Ÿ˜
My philosophy.. we are all beautiful people and we all have differences. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, if a member of the opposite sex finds your ps ugly, so be it, there are many others that dont โ˜บ For me, it is the eyes that make me crumble, a set of glistening happy eyes is far sexier than a dolled up image ๐Ÿ˜‰ Dont worry what others say, go out and enjoy your life, flaunt yourself and have fun... there are people out there that think youre beautiful


Michelle
Michelle @michelle1021

Well said Glenn and very true


deborah
deborah @deborah4

Nice comment Glenn and true enough. Thank you.


Jannie
Jannie @jannie2469

Being kind and loving and true to yourself beats sexy glamour every day of the week.


Aleksandar
Aleksandar @aleksandar1

Listen to Jannie, that's the best way.



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